I have been dating the same guy since I was 12.  The names have changed, the builds changed (some times), but all in all… the same fucking guy year after year for over a decade. If you are emotionally unavailable, have a drug addiction, or some other sort of addiction, and like to brood and throw tantrums like a child: I AM THE GIRL FOR YOU!  Hell, you do not even have to impress me, just notice me, make me believe that you understand my depth and are strong enough to handle the emotions that pour out of me. That is it, you notice me, talk to me, make me feel somewhat special, and come off like you are a man that is strong enough to handle a woman like me  and my panties are laying on the damn floor.